Who needs money?!

My dh isn't thrilled about having to spend more money on IVF treatments. Last month his car had some engine problems which cost over $1000 and now our refrigerator is going out, so that's another $1000 to buy a new one!!! UUGH!!!! And if that's not bad enough, it looks like some bees have decided to make their hive in the back of our house. As in building their hive in between the siding of our house and the exterior wall!!! Yikes!! We also have a hornets nest the size of a football in a tree right by our back deck. I told dh that if I see any critters in the house I'm calling an exterminator!!!! He says they'll die in the winter, but I'm not so sure I want to wait that long. No more going outside to play in the backyard for Lydia!!! I'm glad we had already put down the deposit for the FET before the car troubles, refrigerator, or bees otherwise we wouldn't be doing the FET now. Now I'm worried that the FET will be a BFN. If we don't thaw all of the embies this time then I want to try again asap!!! I'm afraid my dh will either want to postpone it for a long time or won't want to do it at all. I just can't let our snowbabies remain frozen forever. My hope is that I'll get preggy and if we have any embies left then we can donate them to another couple. Just have to tell myself whatever happens is the way God wants it to be, even if it's not what I want.