Back from transfer

Got the call yesterday morning that our embie hadn't grown to a blast yet like it should have. We were given the option of going ahead with the transfer as scheduled, or to wait another day to see if it grew or not. We went ahead and did the transfer. When we were getting ready to do the transfer, the dr told us that the other embie that I thought had died was still alive, but wasn't really growing, so we could either toss it or transfer it also. We went ahead and transferred it, I feel better about it dying in me than tossing it out like trash. I'm 99.9% sure that this last cycle is a bust, but I'm so hoping I'm wrong. Beta is the Monday before Thanksgiving Day. My inlaws will be coming to visit for the holidays, which will kinda suck because I'll have to put on a happy face.