I hate PIO!!! And other grumblings

I haven't had a decent night's sleep since I started the PIO shots. Last night I didn't get to sleep until nearly 1 am and then woke up at 4 am and never got back to sleep. I just laid in bed tossing and turning. So when I got out of bed a few hours later I was already in a grumpy mood. Dh's parents are coming to stay with us for a week for Thanksgiving and I have a ton of stuff to do to get the house in order. My clinic doesn't want me to do any heavy lifting during the 2ww. I've already screwed that up because I have to lift up dd several times a day. I hadn't drank any coffee so far in my 2ww, but this morning I HAD to have a cup. I know that the quality of the embies has more to do with whether or not I'll get preggy than lifting heavy things or drinking coffee do. But it messes with my head whenever I do something like lifting dd or having coffee. I get that, well you just caused yourself to not get preggy. I have so much to do to get ready for my IL's visit. I was counting on dh being here this weekend so that I could get some stuff done. Now he says that he has to work all weekend and the night before they get here. CRAP!! I need to go grocery shopping for Thanksgiving. I wanted him to go with me so that he could lift all the heavy stuff, now he won't be around to do that. I also have several heavy Christmas gifts that I order from Wal-mart that have come in. I wanted him to go get them before his parents got here so they could see them. He says he won't have time. So I'll have to get them, grrrr!!! Several weeks ago I told my MIL of a gift I got for dd that I'm so excited to give to her. I've done tons of research and got the one that I really liked the most. Well last night when dh was talking to his mom on the phone she said she got another version of the gift, so I should take mine back. WTH!! She's done this before, finds out what I've gotten for dd and then goes and gets the samething. I want to be the one to give dd the gift. If we both give her our gifts, she'll get the one they got her on Thanksgiving since we're doing gifts then. They won't be here for Christmas. So when dd gets the gift we got her it won'lt be special since she got theirs first. Grrr!! I need some tackful way of telling MIL what she can do with the gift she got. Dd doesn't need 2 versions of the same gift. While I was typing this dd came up to me and said she needed to go potty. I had just taken her 2 times in the last hour and she didn't do anything. It had't been more than 10 mins since the last trip to the bathroom, so I was relunctant to take her again. We went in and she's sitting there not doing anything, then all of a suddent she poops in the potty!!!! It's the first time she's pooped in the big potty!!! Yea!!!! She looked like she was going to cry, until I said she could have a piece of candy. It's amazing how a lollipop fixes everything!!!